I wish you luck - just don't punish - this is a control thing, she's learning what parts of her world she CAN control, and which she can't. WIthin two days, she was no longer refusing, and going ON THE BIG POTTY to poop. Told my Mom & anyone else around to IGNORE HER with regards to potty issues. We stopped asking her about potty use - even if she was dancing in front of us. You're a big girl, and you are in control of your body - JUST YOU." If it sits in your diaper, it gets on your skin, and can give you a rash, and your skin won't be healthy. YOU are in charge of getting the waste out, as poop & pee - to keep your body healthy, YOU Need to get that waste out at least once a day. I sat down with my daughter, and told her: "You are the boss of your body. My daughter wouldn't poop at ALL at 3 & 1/2, and it was a power struggle too - my mother tried bribing, my daughter just got more furious and intent on "never pooping again". If she does go in her pullup, teach her where the pullups are, how to change herself, & where to throw the soiled one. Then, STOP asking if she needs to poop, or wants to use the potty. Put her in diapers if you're going out, and teach her to change herself (Pullups, I guess then - cloth, if you've got them!). This is a power struggle, pure and simple. As much positive attn as possible! It has worked beautifully so far.īribing does NOT WORK. I also make sure we update daddy when he gets home everyday and he does the same. Every time he goes tt or poopy on the potty, I give him a big hug and kiss and tell him how proud I am and what a big boy he is. Now he has gone 4 days!!! no accidents even overnight. He finally started wanting to go because everytime we fed the monster the poop from his underwear, I would say "Next time if you can go in the potty, you can get your purple poopy skittles!"Ībout 3 days of this, and he finally went on the potty. ![]() My son also has a imagination like crazy now, he thinks there is a potty monster.so, we feed the potty monster when he poops. I would say, I know this time you had an accident and that's ok because we all do at first. After he would go in his underwear, I would help him get them off and then make him dump it in the potty. Then I would ask him maybe 2x a day if he needed to poop.he always said no. Just make sure that when you ask her, you don't mention anything about the potty. Every kid is different, so you'll have to find something that works for your daughter here, but there is something. His favorite color is purple.they are now "poopy skittles". ![]() I asked my son what his very favorite candy was. I found that I was really pressuring him when I took a step back and looked at it. My 3 1/2 yr old son was having the same problem.
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